“Believe something and the Universe is on its way to being changed. Because you've changed, by believing. Once you've changed, other things start to follow. Isn't that the way it works?” ― Diane Duane, So You Want to Be a Wizard

Friday, August 7, 2026

Buddy: A Lake Dog's Journey

 Based on a true story


Nobody knew where Buddy came from.

He was simply there, the way the lake was there, and the pines, and the long gold light that lay across the water in the evening. A lake dog. If you asked the regulars how long he'd been around, they'd scratch their heads and say, "Oh, Buddy? Buddy's always been here." And somehow that seemed to be true.

He knew everyone. He knew which cabins woke early and which slept late, which docks the fish liked best, which children could be trusted to throw a stick and which would only pretend. If you offered him a scrap from your plate, he would take it politely, with a small dignified nod, as if to say thank you — but he never begged. Not once. Buddy had his pride.

He weathered the seasons. Summer thunderstorms, the first frost, the deep hush of snow — Buddy met them all the way he met everything, without complaint, as though he had agreed to the terms of the world long ago and had no quarrel with any of them.

One summer I brought a new puppy to the lake, along with my older dog, who was very well behaved. The puppy was not. When he caught sight of Buddy, he lost his little mind entirely — bouncing and yipping and barking with the wild joy of someone who has never learned that the world does not, in fact, revolve around him.

Buddy did not bark back. He simply looked at me.

I have never in my life been so thoroughly told off without a single word. That look traveled straight out of his old eyes and into the middle of my chest, and it said, plain as anything:

What have you done? Why are you not parenting your dog?

I felt about two inches tall. I had disappointed Buddy — and somehow that mattered more than disappointing almost anyone.

Because Buddy was an old soul. You could see it in him. He had the patience of something that has watched a great many summers come and go.

For years, whenever I arrived at my mother's cabin, Buddy would appear to greet us. Never right away, and never for very long. He'd trot up out of the trees, look us over, accept his welcome — and then go on about his rounds. Because Buddy had rounds, you understand. A whole territory of friends to visit and quiet business to attend to.

We worried about him, out there on his own. But he never seemed to want saving. He kept to himself, turned up to say hello, and carried on. That was simply who he was: a free spirit, belonging to the lake and to everyone and to no one at all.

Then one of the locals — an older woman who lived down near the water — began to look after him.

Or perhaps he began to look after her. With Buddy it was always hard to say. Maybe they looked after each other. That happens, sometimes, between two old souls who recognize something familiar in one another.

And when the time came for her to leave the lake and move to a retirement community in the city, Buddy went with her.

It was sad to see him go. The next time I visited, the lake was still the lake — but there was an emptiness in it now. A Buddy-shaped space where a small gray dog used to come trotting out of the pines. We missed him. And we wondered how a lake dog, a free spirit, would ever manage the great change from open water and open sky to city rooms and city halls.

But I think Buddy knew exactly what he was doing.

Because he had always known where he was needed. And now he was needed there.

In the retirement community, they say, he became something of a legend. He did his rounds, just as he always had — down the long halls now instead of along the shoreline — greeting each resident, accepting the treats they were so delighted to give, never begging, always with that same small dignified nod. He gave them his quiet company. And in return he received something he had never quite had before: a warm place, a secure routine, and a whole new world of friends. His own retirement, earned honestly and spent with grace.

He had traded the freedom of the lake for a different kind of gift — being cherished. And he seemed to understand that it was a fair trade.

Buddy met his calling the way he met the seasons: with dignity, and with grace, and with that loyal, knowing heart that only dogs have ever quite managed to perfect.

And when at last his long life was done — when the old soul finally set off for wherever old souls go — I like to think he simply began one more round. A bigger territory this time. New friends to greet. New porches to sit on in the long gold evening light.

If I could reach up and pin the brightest star in all of Heaven onto one small, gray, wandering dog —

I would give it to Buddy.

And on clear nights at the lake, when the water is still and the whole sky is full, I look up and I find the brightest one, and I know exactly who it is.

Still doing his rounds.

Still watching over all of us.

Good dog, Buddy. Good dog..

The Lake Dog.


Wednesday, January 31, 2024

Quick update - Arrivals, Departures, Transitions

Time spent with a cat is never wasted.” - Unknown

This quote is attributed to several hi-profile names... so let's just say, it's a good quote and google for today's most likely author.


Cleaning house

Thank you for stopping by. 

It took longer than I had hoped, but this is a quick refresh with an interview link. Please note the Empower Radio interviews were active for a decade. Those links are expired. That site has been sold.

I've had several life changes and redirects since starting this blog (and the one it replaced). Several wonderful animal companions have also transitioned.

But there are always new developments and progress. Our evolving understanding of animal cognition and behavior keeps the interest flowing.  

I saved some interviews. Others were duplicated via my podcast - Wendy's Coffeehouse. I have been focused on that content -  and blogging metaphysics, and UFO, paranormal content.


Transition

Bob and Belle. Tussle in the tree stand. 

 

Bob and Belle are hanging out in the tree house. Belle's brother, Hans (both 9 months), is happy to watch from the couch. Bob is the elder at age 6. He lost his brother, Stormy, last spring and it took a toll.

Stormy was the neighborhood explorer. Bob's best buddy. Emboldened when Stormy was around, Bob leveraged his extra pounds to maintain his (presumed) alpha status. Stormy humored him.

True to his name, Stormy went out shortly before a storm and didn't come back. May 2023. Relentless near the end, I couldn't keep him in. The rain started and it was different - he didn't come in.

From the beginning, I had a sense he was on a shorter time clock. We knew him (and Bob) from the day of arrival next door because they showed up at our house. Two tiny kittens wandered in the yard. Assuming they were strays, we set up a kennel with litter and toys. A day later, the neighbor and her two little boys showed up asking if we had seen them.

The boys saw what we had done and asked if they could also get toys for their cats... The kittens, designated 'barn cats' (in the suburbs) returned to live in their garage with the door open ... Wandering the neighborhood... and spending lots of time in our yard.  

I tried to block the sense I had that something would happen to Stormy. It was unusual. I couldn't shake it. I haven't had that sense with my other pets - the apprehension that his time would be short. Nothing to explain - just an odd, unshakable sadness that he was on a shorter clock. 


He was a beautiful and very photogenic tuxedo cat. Curious. Playful. Taught to be an outdoor cat by the neighbors who, eventually - before they were a year old - offered to leave Bob and Stormy with us when they relocated. Because they always ended up at our house and we wanted them. 

Stormy adopted a favorite position, half on/half off of the bed, the couch, the chair - upside down - balanced perfectly on the edge. Defying gravity was his special talent.

Other behaviors might have factored in but his actions with our dog Cassie - suggested he had said his goodbyes the day he went missing. I prayed for a miracle and asked that he please let me find him - that he please make it back to the yard. The guides responded and said he would return the following afternoon - with the understanding - it might not be on my terms.

We had company that day - totally out of character for our schedule. Without notice, he made it to the yard and laid down under our special tree. I was distracted. I didn't find the body that afternoon. I found it later that night when I ran outside to patrol the yard with a flashlight - because it came to me where I needed to look - and it was time for him to be found. I might have tried to save him if I had found him sooner.

I picked him up and carried him inside to let Bob and the dogs know he was gone. In the following days, Bob spent most of his time on the blanket where I put Stormy that last time. To see him like that, it was clear he was grieving. He had never been alone. He lost his rock. 

We put our name in for adoption, hoping to find a young pair of kittens that could adapt to Bob and help him through his grief. I wanted siblings because they do so much better in the company of their companions. My only stipulation was a bonded pair. There were several possibilities but, as it turns out, we were not approved until two black cats, Hans and Belle became available. 

The timing for their arrival was seamless. Stormy might have had a hand. The day we picked them up - an intense storm rolled through and opened up as we sat in the waiting room at the adoption center. Paperwork completed, kittens in tow, we dodged the aftermath of flooded streets, downed trees and blocked roads on the way home.


It took 10 days for the kittens to recover from surgeries, to acclimate (along with the dogs), and for Bob to realized they were staying. But the biggest clue we made the right call was when Bob picked up a mouse and started playing - entertaining himself - for the first time since we said goodbye to Stormy. 

Kittens were born in April, very sick, 2 survivors out of 5. Stormy departed in May. The kittens came home with us in August. There are correlations here. And somewhere there is a chart - ensuring arrivals and departures are on schedule. Amazing. 

The three cats now cuddle up in a pile. Bob tolerates Belle. However, with Hans, it's two peas in a pod. Hans has a special bond with Bob. He tracks him down and the two will snuggle.

Bob will occasionally dart out the door and stay a short time outdoors. As of yet - not counting rides to the vet - the kittens do not go outside.   

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Wendy's podcast: 
https://audioboom.com/channel/wendy-s-coffeehouse

Wendy's other blog: https://talkingtonightlights.wordpress.com/


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Animal Communication

Equine Empath - When Horses Whisper, you can listen

Wendy's Coffeehouse Interview with Rosalyn Berne

What would you do if you fell off a horse and a door opened to a world you never even fathomed? That's what happened to Rosalyn Berne.

On vacation in Costa Rica, she fell off a horse and when she got up, she realized she could hear what the horse was thinking. He was quite rattled that she had fallen off and worried because that had never happened to him before. And so it began, a new journey filled with amazing insights and revelations.


"All of the animals except for man know that the principle business of life is to enjoy it." ~ Samuel Butler